A MUST READ TO ALL PARENTS....

1: if your child lies to you often,it is because you over-react too harshly to
 their inappropriate behaviour.
2: if a child is not taught to confide in you about their mistakes, you have lost them.
3: if your child had poor low self-esteem, it is because you advice them more than you encourage them.
4: if your child does not stand up for themselves,it is because from a tender age, you have disciplined them regularly in public.
5: if your child takes things that do not belong to them, it is because when you buy them things,you don't allow them chose what they want.
6: if your child is cowardly, it is because you help them too quickly.
7: if your child does not respect other people's feelings,it is because instead of speaking to your child, you order or command them.
8: if your child is too quick to anger, it is because you give too much attention to mis-behaviour and you give little attention to good behaviour.
9: id your child is excessively jealous, it is because you only congratulate them when they successfully complete something and not when they improve at something even if they dont successfully complete it.
10: if your child intentionally disturbs you, it is because you are not physically affectionate enough.
11: if your child is openly defiant, it is because you openly threaten to do something but don't follow through.
12: if your child is secretive,it is because they dont trust that you wont blow things out of proportion.
13: if your child talks back at you, it is because they watch you do it to others and thinks its normal behaviour.
14: if your child doesn't listens to you but listens to others, it is because you are too quick to make decision.
15: if your child rebels, it is because they know you care more about what others think than what is right.
I hope this guide us on how to treat our children.
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