1. There is nothing that threatens
the security of a wife than the
thought of another woman
competing for the attention and
affection of her husband. Nothing
is more painful. Nothing is more
disrespecting. Nothing is more
insulting. Nothing is more belittling
and degrading.
2. Marriage flourishes when the
couple works together as a team;
when both husband and wife
decide that winning together is
more important than keeping
score.
Good marriages don't just happen.
They are a product of hard work.
3. Your children are watching you
and forming lasting opinions on
love, commitment, and marriage
based on what they see in you.
Give them hope. Make them look
forward to marriage.
4. Husbands: The reason why other
women look attractive is because
someone is taking good care of
them. Grass is always green where
it is watered. Instead of drooling
over the green grass on the other
side of the fence, work on yours
and water it regularly. Any man can
admire a beautiful woman, but it
takes a true gentleman to make a
woman admirable and beautiful.
5. When a husband puts his wife
first above everyone and
everything except God, it gives his
wife the sense of security and
honor that every wife hungers for.
6. A successful marriage doesn't
require a big house, a prefect
spouse, a million dollars or an
expensive car. You can have all the
above and still have a miserable
marriage. A successful marriage
requires honesty, undying
commitment and selfless love and
Jesus at the center of it all.
7. Pray for your spouse every day;
in the morning, in the afternoon
and at evening. Don’t wait until
there is a problem. Don’t wait until
there is an affair. Don’t wait until
something bad happens. Don’t wait
until your spouse is tempted. Shield
your spouse with prayer and cover
your marriage with the fence of
prayer.
8. The people you surround
yourself with have a lot of influence
on your marriage. Friends can build
or break your marriage; choose
them wisely.
9. One spouse cannot build a
marriage alone when the other
spouse is committed to destroying
it. Marriage works when both
husband and wife work together as
a team to build their marriage.
10. Don't take your spouse for
granted. Don't take advantage of
your spouse's meekness and
goodness. Don't mistake your
spouse's loyalty for desperation.
Don't misuse or abuse yours
spouse's trust. You may end up
regretting after losing someone
that meant so much to you.
11. Beware of marital advice from
single people. Regardless of how
sincere their advice may be, most
of it is theoretical and not derived
from real life experiences. If you
really need Godly advice, seek it
from God-fearing, impartial and
prayerful mature couples whose
resolve has been tested by time
and shaped by trials.
12. Dear wife, Don't underestimate
the power of the tongue on your
marriage. The tongue has the
power to crush your marriage or
build it up. Don't let the Devil use
your tongue to kill your spouse's
image, self-confidence and
aspirations. Let God use your
tongue to build up your marriage
and bless and praise your spouse.
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