A cemetery in a residential area in Ayobo, Lagos. (Photo: Tunde Ajaja)
15-year-old Oguntuase James, who is one of thousands of Nigerians
residing near the cemetry, and always see ambulance bringing a corpses
for interment at the cemetery which is located just beside his parents’
house on Bashiru Adedeji Street, Ayobo, Lagos, has disclosed to a
correspondent what if feels like to live very close to a graveyard.
“It is not easy living near a cemetery. Once it’s about late
evening, we don’t open the door for strangers here unless we know the
person, to avoid receiving an unwanted visitor and this is evening time
when all kinds of things happen,” he added.
James disclosed that the experience one of his neighbour friend had
few years ago haunts him till date. According to him, the old friend
who he identified as Segun, claimed to have seen some ghosts who
beckoned to him in the middle of the night. Not only did Segun run away
from the spot, he never returned to the house, such that his friends had
to help him pack his things.
He said, “Someone once lived close to us here. He was working
in Ikeja, so he used to come back late. But there was one night he came
back very late and he was fetching water outside around 1am, when he
suddenly ran inside, saying he saw a dead person beckoning to him to
come. Initially, people thought he was imagining things in his mind, but
he couldn’t sleep throughout that night and since he left the following
morning, he never came back. People had to help him pack his things and
took them to him.
“And since that day, I have been noticing some strange things
anytime I’m home alone, like someone opening the door, gentle wind
blowing across my room occasionally and some things I can’t really
explain. These days, I don’t sleep alone unless my parents are there.”
James sees nothing interesting living in the area, even though he
enjoys the quietness and serenity some other Lagos residents would crave
for.
“Anytime I set my eyes on that place, there is a way my head
swells and I want to run away but we are stuck here because my parents
don’t have money to relocate. I don’t have friends who come here to
visit me because of where I live and there is no other way one can
describe this house without mentioning cemetery; it’s like the landmark
here. In fact, a friend once told me I live among the dead.”
James, who had just finished his Senior School Certificate
Examination, said he could not wait to leave the area and go to school,
given the psychological and emotional torment he had suffered seeing
graves almost every day. The situation is so bad that only a handful of
his friends know his house because of the fear of the cemetery.
“We have seen many things here but what can we do. If people
come to bury corpses here, we always see them and sometimes it could be
more than once in a day. Some people don’t even come with casket, while
some would wash the corpse on this road (pointing to the road that is
few metres away from their entrance). I have seen people washing corpses
on that road before but there was nothing we could do. I am tired.”
James’ family’s experience aptly captures the experience of many
people living in this area, and there are a number of them. The one
beside James’ house is tucked inside Ayobo in Alimosho Local Government
Area of Lagos State. For many families in this area, they said if they
had known the place would become a cemetery, they would never have
considered living there.
Mrs. Funmi Awoyale could not hide her dislike for what had become
of the quiet area she and her family moved into years ago. Not only is
she constantly disturbed seeing the site, her children had been
psychologically traumatised several times, that she sends them to live
with her siblings anytime they are on leave.
“My little girl, who is about ten years old, would not sleep
alone at night, likewise her brother who is five. They are all very
scared and they want us to leave this area. it is not that they have
seen any walking corpse yet, but their imagination is unsettling them,” she added.
For some others, like Mr. Joel, the initial fears about living
close to the dead may have reduced, coupled with his belief that anyone
pronounced dead is dead forever, but he certainly won’t forget the day
he claimed he saw some of his ‘neighbours’ in his dream.
Joel, who appeared to be in his late 40s said, “When I was
young, my maternal grandfather was buried inside the house, and we the
children would place our mat on the grave and sleep. So I was never used
to having excessive fears about dead people, more so that I’m older
now, but I won’t forget the day I saw them in my dream.
“There were times I saw them in my dream, I would challenge
them and ask where they were going. They were usually in procession.
They said they weren’t coming to me and that I should leave them alone.
So I left them truly.”
Joel said even though he had been trying to teach his children how
not to be afraid, it seems they wouldn’t have any of that as they would
not pass the narrow pathway that runs through the cemetery unless he was
with them.
He said, “There was a day I was going out with the children and
we met some people bringing a corpse. My children froze and they wanted
to run back but I held them. They are getting used to it, but they
still have fears. We have to live with it because it wasn’t there when
we moved here.”
“Yes, people who are dead are gone, but if you dump refuse on a
grave, they would give it back to you but you might not see them. All
age groups are represented in this cemetery; from one-day old to aged
people.”
Joel however condemned a situation whereby people wash the corpses on the road in front of people’s houses. “Some people see us as abnormal but there is nothing we can do and that is why we rarely have visitors,” Joel concluded.
One other resident, Mr. Ige who wouldn’t mind sharing her
experience said her fears began when she moved into the area newly and
the only usable path was between two graves.
“Anytime we approached that place, my head would swell, as if
those dead persons would just rise and flog me. I never saw any walking
corpse but passing through the cemetery is not fun, especially when you
have visitors,” she said.
She recalled that there were times she would board motorcycles and
the bikers would literally turn back on approaching the cemetery.
“An okada man once asked me if I lived in the burial ground,
because he saw me going farther into the cemetery, not knowing there is a
path beside it that leads to my house. Some would even leave the money
because they see you as a ghost and they would run away.
“Some would refuse to go further once you start approaching the
place. One of them once dropped me in the middle of the road beside the
site and sped back immediately. He was screaming as if he was seeing
ghosts coming to slap him. He almost had an accident that day.
“My children are traumatised because we could be coming home
and we would see people washing corpses in the middle of the road. If
the deceased is a Muslim, some people would lay the person in the middle
of the road and pray (Janaza) for the person right there, tie the
person with rope, the way they do, before the interment. Our children
see these things and they wouldn’t be able to sleep at night.”
Some residents on Bashiru Adedeji Street and those at the extreme
of Legacy Road in Ayobo are constrained to live with the influx of the
dead into their abode, an obvious site that welcomes everyone into
Jinadu in Shofunde area of Agege Lagos is the assemblage of cemeteries
in the area.
Just opposite one of the cemeteries is Udemezue Chimah, disclosed
that his major concern was how to raise money to get another apartment
and vacate his cemetery-ridden abode.
“I have had nightmares countless times, even my wife. Night
time is usually a dreadful time for me and my wife. Do you know how it
feels when you wake up to pee in the middle of the night and you feel
like someone is pursuing you and you start looking behind you because
behind the wall is a cemetery. It is frustrating.
“There is no how we can raise children here, so we need to move
out before we can start having children. There was a time my brother
came to spend holiday here, he ran away the following day, and even that
night, he couldn’t sleep throughout. Anytime I remember the money I
spent to rent this house, I felt cheated by the estate agent because he
never told us and we never saw them as he instructed us not to use the
route.
“The day I learnt there were cemeteries here, I almost fainted.
I felt like going mad, you know that kind of a thing. Since then, as
old as I am, I run anytime I’m passing the road, because the cemetery is
on the left, right and front. Even though they are all fenced, when I’m
coming back from work in the night, I usually wait to see other people
going towards the same direction because I can’t pass through the place
alone. If after some time I still don’t see others, I would go through
the other route, which is longer.
“Sometimes, if you board a motorcycle, the riders sometimes
hesitate once you tell them the street, and if they agree, they zoom off
immediately you alight.”
Speaking on the effect of living close to a cemetery, a
psychologist, Dr. Adepeju Omoteso, said the fears attached to such are
mere imaginations. She said, “That is what we call phobia. People
have phobia for many things and one of them is fear of the dead. It also
depends on the culture. Some people believe that if someone dies
prematurely, the dead person might come back to hurt people. But as a
psychologist, I don’t believe in it.”
On whether it is appropriate for cemeteries to be sited in
residential areas, the Lagos State Commissioner for Information and
Strategy, Steve Ayorinde, said that government was also concerned with
the development and that urgent intervention was on the way.
He added, “This is because there is a law on that, for obvious
cultural and religious reasons, but people have not shown respect for
that. One of the things government is thinking of is the need to have a
taskforce on compliance with the law, to ensure that this is addressed
once and for all. With the cooperation of the citizens, we will achieve
this.”
Courtesy: Punch
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