Have
you ever been in a situation where a guest storms your home and ends up
overstaying their welcome? This is what to do to get rid of them.
It’s normal in Nigeria for you to organise a party and some of your
guests sleep over. There is nothing wrong with that. If you don’t want
to lodge them in one of the best hotels in Lagos, they have to sleep in
your home.
But what if your guest takes advantage of your magnanimity and
extends their stay? This can be very discomforting because you would be
in a dilemma on how to get rid your guest who has overstayed their
welcome.
In addition, you don’t want to annoy them and still stay friends
even after getting rid of them. So, if you don’t know what to do, Jumia
Travel, shares smart ways to get rid of guests who have overstayed their
welcome.
1. Make time part of the invitation
They say prevention is better than cure. This mantra can also apply
here. If you don’t want a guest to overstay, you should state it
clearly the time the party is going to start and end. This will prevent
any friend from thinking of staying. But this may not apply to family
relatives. But it’s not a bad idea to include it in the invitation card.
2. Give them chores
Like Chinua Achebe said in his book that if a guest has stayed more
than 3 days in your home, give him a hoe to farm. This is because he’s
no long a guest. So, if you want to get rid of that guest, you can
subtly give them chores. They won’t be happy with this and before you
know they are on their way to their home.
3. Fake having to travel
This is quite drastic but it will definitely work. But you have to
do this in agreement with your spouse. You can inform the guest a night
before that you are traveling and you can’t leave them. They have no
choice than to leave.
4. Make the home boring
There is a level of boredom that will be unbearable for any
unwelcomed guests. You may decide not to switch on the generator in the
night and not subscribe to your pay TV when it’s subscription expires.
In fact, you can even refuse to play music or watch music. This should
send a signal to the guest that he has to leave.
5. Tell them directly
This is probably the best option for you but the most difficult.
You have to just summon the courage and tell them that it’s time for
them to leave.
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